The Backyard

Hosted ByGrace Omonyemen & Udoka Ijeh

The Backyard is a weekly podcast that unfolds happenings in our Africa society.  Join Grace & Udoka as they invite guests, coaches, innovators, creators and experts to discuss the daily happenings in the Africa community.

If you are a lover of Pop culture, societal norms, politics or education, then this podcast is for you.

Black Girls ATM

  • The average Nigerian lady believes that their lovers/boyfriend should be responsible for their financial needs.
  • The day you say “Will you be my girlfriend?”, you become the solution to all her existing problems and even the ones that exist in her mind!
  • Most relationships have gone down the drain because of MONEY. Girls don’t have chill when they realized their boyfriend’s or lovers are broke or not able to supply their financial needs. On the other hand, there are guys too, who have made their girlfriends their ATM but this problem is not just the man/woman thing. It’s the Africa mindset. It’s believed that the one with whom you are in a romantic relationship should be able to give you money and provide all kinds of luxuries.
  • Many women dream of getting married to a rich guy, what they have failed to realize is that their life, their well-being/the society which they may want to help will only revolve around that man’s income this means they can’t get things they love if the man does not have the means, so ladies should try and build themselves so they can be financially independent.
  • Notwithstanding, Guyz should try to support their lovers because regardless, MONEY is the ointment that’s much need in any Romantic relationship

2 comments on “Black Girls ATM

  1. Let me also add that some ladies do MANIPULATE their men or boyfriends to do what the men or boyfriends never planned to do, so they can benefit..!

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